i generally havent had much experience with those sorts of lesbians. most of the ones I know are veterans. either have been with guys before or have been lesbians long enough that there is no question in their minds. my suspicion is that part of the reason they tend to trust me more than other guys is the fact that when they say they are lesbians I do not attempt to hit on them or embark on a quest to "cure them of that". by and large I'm fairly sure that if they had some wild hair up their backside for a man I would be their go-to guy, but none of the ones I know have hooked up with any other guys either so I guess I'll never know.
There was one instance where I very nearly became a drunken experiment (read: mistake) for one of them once some years back, but she came to her senses after like 5 minutes of making out. that one caught me by surprise, as she was at the time the president of the tulane gay and lesbian organization. she is currently living in Oregon with her life partner, who I helped to fix her up with. this was way before they met though.
Now encounters with fake lesbians is another matter entirely. New Orleans has an abundance of those. I can generally spot them a mile away though.
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Date: 2006-05-17 11:53 pm (UTC)There was one instance where I very nearly became a drunken experiment (read: mistake) for one of them once some years back, but she came to her senses after like 5 minutes of making out. that one caught me by surprise, as she was at the time the president of the tulane gay and lesbian organization. she is currently living in Oregon with her life partner, who I helped to fix her up with. this was way before they met though.
Now encounters with fake lesbians is another matter entirely. New Orleans has an abundance of those. I can generally spot them a mile away though.